Experiences

Experiences

As a woman in my early thirties, life has been a whirlwind of growth, challenges, and discovery. From navigating my career in HR analytics to prioritizing health, fitness, and building meaningful relationships, every step has been a story in the making. This space is my open journal—a place to share the triumphs, the stumbles, and everything in between.
01
Jan
2026 Goal: I Met My Most Broken Self… and She Moved In

2026 Goal: I Met My Most Broken Self… and She Moved In

Recently, somewhere deep in the internet streets, I saw someone describe their 2025 like this: “2025 was when I met
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31
Dec
Home for the Holidays: Letting Go of FOMO and Learning to Exist

Home for the Holidays: Letting Go of FOMO and Learning to Exist

This holiday season has truly been one for the books. Not because it was loud or packed with plans-but because,
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29
Nov
Friendship in Adulthood: The Love Story We Don’t Talk About Enough

Friendship in Adulthood: The Love Story We Don’t Talk About Enough

This is purely based on my experience, not a general sentiment - so please, no psychoanalysis after reading this. I’
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03
Oct
Hogwarts, VHS Tapes, and Why My Inner Child Refuses to Retire

Hogwarts, VHS Tapes, and Why My Inner Child Refuses to Retire

Some people drink green juice to stay young at heart. Me? I just rewatch all Harry Potter parts at least
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19
Sep
The Grace To Relearn People You Already Knew

The Grace To Relearn People You Already Knew

Life has a way of humbling you in the most unexpected ways. Not through embarrassment or failure, but through subtle
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13
Sep
Every house has a Mensah in it (even online)

Every house has a Mensah in it (even online)

I’m currently thirty-something feet in the air, looking out of this tiny window, and my mind won’t stop
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18
Aug
Not Everyone Wants a White Dress or a Crib

Not Everyone Wants a White Dress or a Crib

From as far back as I can remember, I have always known that I didn’t want to have children
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02
Aug
Therapy isn’t a crisis move, it’s a clarity move

Therapy isn’t a crisis move, it’s a clarity move

I never really thought about therapy until I turned 30. It’s not that I thought it was irrelevant. It’
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27
Jul
Full Potential Doesn’t Mean Full Plate

Full Potential Doesn’t Mean Full Plate

For as long as I can remember, the message has been loud and clear — as women, we’re supposed to
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13
Jul
Thirty, Flirty & Figuring it out

Thirty, Flirty & Figuring it out

No one warned me that my thirties would feel like being the main character in a movie I forgot I
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